This morning's email included, among other things, the second RSVP request for my 20 year high school reunion, which is coming up in early August. I really would like to attend, but it's a little far away and I decided before moving to Sweden that I specifically didn't want to return to the US for my first year living here because that's supposed to help with acclimating to a new country/culture.

The only thing is, these two requests have basically been "RSVP by paying for the event via one of the methods below", with no apparent way to respond "No, I won't be attending." I wonder how they'll account for us non-responders in their event planning and how many just haven't gotten around to saying anything vs. how many are definite "no"s.